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September 2010 Newsletter:

Helping Those We Love

September 2010 Newsletter:

*Helping those we love
*Helping Someone who has not asked

*Working on Being Me

*Helping Those we Love
One of the greatest challenges we have is our desire to help the people who are close to us; our family, lovers and friends. This can create a difficult moment because often even those closest to us do not understand what we mean by true healing - it means change. This can often be so far from their own reality that they may judge the experience which in turn, places judgment on us. Sometimes their conscious mind can not handle what might be uncovered during a healing session. Sometimes they have not really asked for a healing, just for help. An inner part of them is seeking answers and all we want is for them to ask for our help. How do we watch on the sidelines when we just know we can be of assistance?

Experience says that most people fear everything they do not understand. If we are working with any type of spiritual modality, then for sure the majority of people around us will not understand, which leads to even more fear. So how do we help those who ask us to help and remain available to those that don’t? How can we be of assistance to loved ones who have a disease (like cancer) and remain energetically safe while allowing them to be creators of their own creation?

The only way we have found to help a person who has a health issue would be to help clear the energy or consciousness that is causing the disease. Then we can assist them to find their own understanding of why they attracted the energy in the first place. This gives them a choice of releasing all the different ideas, projections and energetics that might be holding them within their own issue. Unfortunately, we have found that most people do not accept themselves as a creator. It is easier to be the victim.

After all, how can anyone accept that they created cancer? What would be the purpose? As we have seen in many cases, one gets a disease or a sickness and it takes them on another path. It is while they are on this path they find themselves. They find the knowing. They find the peace. Their disease has taken them into a place where they evolve and maybe become more than they were before. This is certainly not the way we would have encouraged them to learn.

What should we do when we are in our space, loving ourselves, and upsetting events happen in our community or someone asks for our help? Get involved. We can make our compassion count by helping others – by donating time to organizations or charities. When we physically help someone or assist a worthy and good cause, we become more aware of our feelings, understand ourselves better, and gain greater compassion for the creations of others.

We are physical beings and need to physically experience our creations. We are not victims. By helping others we can affirm our compassion for another’s creation. This gives us a better understanding of being a creator and a co-creator.

*Helping Someone Who Has Not Asked For Help
We are aware that some people will ask their Higher Self for permission to send healing energy to someone else, and their Higher Self has said ‘yes’. They asked for permission without the knowledge of the other person. In our opinion, interfering without permission not only takes away another person’s chosen life lessons, it can actually intensify their experiences--often causing them to create something even more chaotic. Even though we may have the best of intentions and generate only feelings of love, by getting caught up in someone else’s experiences, whatever energy or negativity that is around them can rebound and affect us.

If we are asked by someone to do a remote healing for another person, without the permission or awareness of that other person, we always suggest that we first might work with them. Ninety percent of the time, after the session, their Higher Self tells them they should not interfere with the other person.

If we try to help someone who has not physically asked us for help, we intensify their creations and get caught in their experiences. Instead of trying to help others without their permission, what if we have unconditional love for ourselves and unconditional compassion for them just as they are? Could they be better helped in solving their own life lessons by feeling our self love and compassion and mirroring it in themselves? We can only really help those who ask for our help in the first place.

By having complete compassion, this allows the other person to find that energetic vibration within themselves which in turn, could cause an internal change – a choice that anything is possible.

*Working on Being Me (by Ken)
Recently, someone told a friend of ours that I was 'making myself out to be a God'. This came after 22 hours of teaching a course on 'Oneness' and compassion, showing all the participants how to be a part of everything and live a life without fear. We work hard to emphasize that the clearing techniques and loving yourself can change you and you will become invisible to energy that hurts. We also remind everyone that at the end of the course they will be 'more' than we are. They will have all their own knowledge and all the knowledge we have - that makes them 'more' than us. There is nothing held back, nothing that we hide from you - everything is already on our website - free.

So, what if I am a god? Not THE God, but a part of the creative energy in each one of us. It's not about you believing it - it's about me believing it. Do I believe what I practice every day (having compassion for all creation without judgment or opinion)?

Okay - this is something personal for me - nothing that I need anyone else to judge or examine. This is just my truth. For me, it's a challenge of balance in living each day and still doing what I do every day - like what I've been doing since July (releasing negativity - see next column). Living in the real world brings all manner of stuff: cars, insurance, home maintenance, money, other people... I've often said it might be easier to live in a cave with nothing else to worry about. Being married is a full time job. With the amount and type of energy I am working with every day, it's not always easy staying balanced. Allowing myself to become reactive throws me off balance with my Higher Self.

Bottom line: I am still learning what I teach now and what I will teach about in the future - being a part of God.


Thanks for reading,
Ken and Nancy


We are Home-in the USA

After traveling out of the country for these last four years - we are home until the middle of February 2011. We are excited to be able to offer you an opportunity to bring Heart & Soul Healing to your area. Do you have a group of 15 or 20 people who might be interested in what we have to offer? Sessions, workshops, evening talks... . We'd love to come see you. contact us

Calendar of Events

Our popular 9-day intensive course is returning. Scheduled for January 22-30, 2011, at our facility in Georgia, USA. Plan now to attend this life-altering intensive. Learn how you can release your past and claim a new perspective for yourself, your family, friends and clients.


We appreciate your feedback.

*Releasing Negativity
It began on the 1st of July, 2010 and will continue until the 31st of December, 2012, for two hours each day: Ken will call all of the negativity within creation into himself, including the energy of the doomsayers about 2012.

This process of release will provide a space within everyone to become aware of a lessened sense of burden, to escape from the negative confines of their own minds and a choice to remove themselves from the negative dynamics of their lives. This release will merely create a space where energy can change form. Who knows what shape it will take? Each individual creator can choose for themselves, knowing they can help the world be a better place.

We hope that the compassion found in being One with everything - separate from nothing - will allow everyone to recognize their own Creator-ship and release the bondage of victim mentality. Perhaps by being One with all the energy on earth, we can help to balance karma in some way so everyone trapped in the 'story' of their past can be free to move or change.


Please note: All remote (phone/Skype) healing sessions are being offered at the 2010 discounted price. Just contact us by email to schedule and fill out the questionnaire.

What ‘The Secret’ does not tell you

If there is a subconscious program playing out that says ‘you do not deserve’, ‘you can never have’, or any other self-sabotaging statement – you will not be able to attract to you what you do choose and want.  Schedule your session to discover underlying beliefs, break old karma and realize your full potential.


Life Coaching - Determine the Next Best Action in your Life available right now. Are you searching, stuck or looking for more in your life? Available for personal, business or relationships and more.


Spiritual Retreats - The Institute offers two to five day spiritual retreats here in our facility in the beautiful mountains of NorthEast Georgia. Only miles from Atlanta and easily reached by major interstate highways - give yourself or someone else a gift this year. For Individuals, Couples and Small Groups, each retreat is tailored to your wishes and needs. Retreats can all be one-on-one for specialized attention.


Did you know?
Clear Light Arts, ADL (the parent of Heart & Soul Healing) is a 501 (c)(3) non-profit charities organization. Attendance at all workshops, courses, sessions and retreats is fully tax deductible.

There are many projects that the Institute has planned. Your donations make these possible. Thank you for being generous.

Does your area need help? Do you know others who would like to free themselves from whatever is weighing them down? Sometimes life just gets too much. We would love to help you help yourself and others to bring about change. Sponsor Heart & Soul Healing in your area. Our calendar is now filling up for 2011.


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