End of Summer
What Is Love
END OF SUMMER
The end of August is almost here and for most of us the summer is drawing
to a close. We are also moving towards the anniversary of September 11th.
The events of this past year have deeply affected the entire planet in
a multitude of ways. Who would ever have thought about the many ways we
have been touched in so short a time. Did you know, for instance, that
the birthrate has substantially increased New York? Isn't it amazing how
people began to look at life differently, redefined their priorities,
and choose family?
Imagine how the awareness of freedom has been brought to the world. But
isn't it strange that in the face of this awareness, so many people still
choose war over peace.
I had shoulder surgery in early August. This makes three surgeries in
the last three years. I had my right knee replaced, a hernia repaired,
and a small chip removed from my shoulder. Today my body is a lot stronger.
One of the things I see when I am working with my clients, is the prevailing
apprehension and fear of consulting with conventional medical doctors.
I have heard every horror story imaginable.
I feel it is very important to communicate that there are some things
for which we need assistance from these professionals. For instance, my
hernia was a hereditary condition that stayed inactive until my mid 50s.
Now, as a result of the medical attention I received two years ago, it
is completely healed.
Many of my clients should see a medical doctor. Sometimes they have cancer
or some other serious ailment. Because of lack of medical attention their
illness will probably maim or kill them. If they had just taken care of
themselves sooner, they would have been able to avoid the difficulties
that are sure to come from ignoring the situation and going into denial.
We need to take responsibility and be proactive with our bodies. If you
think you have a problem, take advantage of the knowledge and assistance
that is available from traditional medicine, allopathic medicine, and
alternative sources. Do not get fixated on how a cure needs to look. Sometimes
prayers and calling upon higher powers does not do it.
We CAN find a medical professional that will understand and listen to
us. If you've had a bad experience, you need to keep looking for the right
assistance. With the advent of the Internet, there is an incredible amount
of information out there to assist us in making informed and responsible
Here's something else to think about. In the metaphysical world I hear
over and over again the judgments of people who say that a person is weak
if they cannot heal themselves. But I have a question. If my body is a
reflection of the world around me then how have the events of September
11th affected me physically? Is it a possibility that when I heal myself,
I'm healing the wounds of my ancestors and my world around me?
Think about it. Healing can take place in many ways, from many sources.
Seeking help is not a weakness. It is a strength.
WHAT IS LOVE
Is there a connection between our heart and our soul? Where is the soul
located in the body? How do we evolve? What is the purpose of our existence
on Earth and our connection to God or Source? I have dedicated my life
to answering these questions and understanding why some people feel connected
to Source and others feel empty. I also sought to understand the relationship
of the soul and spirit to our body, mind, and heart.
Throughout history, we have not been given the opportunity to learn the
truth about ourselves, our connection to Source, and our soul. Those in
power have kept us in the dark where we became lost in the outer world.
Why wouldn't those who had discovered the secrets of life want us to know
that each of us has the potential to become the light of Source?
Spiritual and political leaders have suppressed the truth for a number
of reasons: cultural, racial, religious, and sexual. For centuries, people
have searched for truth in the name of God. Wars have been fought. Millions
have been killed. There are more than 1700 religions here on Earth today,
including billions of Catholics, Muslims, and Hindus. Which beliefs are
correct? Where does this fervent religious energy go? How does it affect
the planet? Have our religious beliefs affected our love, compassion,
In my search for the soul, I began hearing and seeing stories about my
past lives in my dreams. I did not know where these experiences came from.
Now I know that each of us is full of such stories. Each of us reenacts
our stories over and over again as we start to awaken to our inner truth.
Our outer world no longer fits who we have become. As we awaken, there
is no need for the past to remind us who we are. There is no need to hide
People have many different ideas about what it means to be open, to be
loving, and to be in the heart center. I'm not talking about the physical
heart but the heart chakra center, the energetic gateway to the soul,
which is located along the centerline of the body next to the physical
Chakras are energy centers throughout the physical body. There are seven
to nine chakras, according to different schools. Many of us are uncomfortable
with the energies of the lower three chakras, because the majority of
the challenges in the world originate there. The first chakra, at the
base of the spine, begins with sexual/survival energy. It then evolves
into sexual/creative energy and finally culminates in creative energy.
Most people never get out of sexual/survival energetics because of their
personal sexual experiences.
The second chakra in the lower abdomen is the point of balance for male
and female energy. The third chakra, at the solar plexus, is the center
of power and control. If our lower chakras are not balanced we will continue
to energetically loop from the fourth chakra, our heart, to the first,
second, and third chakras. Falling in love and making love creates an
energetic connection between the heart chakra and the base chakras. The
different physical and emotional experiences we have in relationships
set up energetic pathways. Subconsciously we keep attracting others until
we physically master sexual/survival feelings and emotions.
Throughout my life, I have been fascinated by how people interact with
each other and how certain patterns of behavior repeat themselves. Even
when people seemed to be coming from a loving space, many became repeatedly
involved in power and control struggles with those around them. Why would
this happen? I believe connecting heart to heart, the way we were taught
in the past, creates energetic looping. Energetic looping means engaging
with others by subconsciously projecting our unknown issues onto them.
When we are energetically out of balance and we try to help others, what
really happens? Do we send love and light based on how we believe others
should act or how we think they should be helped? When we send love, is
it love or is it energy? If we think we are sending love, when it's actually
energy, are we intensifying and distorting another person's creation,
as well as our own? Could we be interfering with the lessons of others
when we think we're helping?
How many of us love ourselves unconditionally? Do we love the way we
look? Our hairline? Our body shape? Do we love every aspect of our life?
Our job? Our house? Our family?
When there are parts of ourselves we do not love, how can we send love
and light to others? What kind of energy do we think we're sending? Will
the energy we send be distorted by our own inability to love ourselves
What has been our experience of love? Have we ever been loved completely?
Did any of our parents love us to our full ability to be loved? It wasn't
until later in life that most of us realized our parents could only love
us as much as they loved themselves. Is this also true for us? Can we
only love others as much as we love ourselves?
In addition to the fact that most of us do not fully love ourselves,
most of us also energetically mix our fields with others. This happens
because our energetic fields are usually projected outward several hundred
feet from our bodies. When our energy fields are projected away from us
that far, everything going on around us affects our physical, mental,
emotional and spiritual bodies. When our fields are out and we send energy
to others who also have their fields projected out, could this distort
our perceptions and experiences even further?
When we energetically loop with others and our fields are also out, the
loop will continue past the time we are with those people physically.
When we see them again, the energetic patterns will still be there. That
person will continue to unconsciously project their issues onto us whether
it's guilt, anger, or pain. Spiritually, this ongoing dynamic helps us
to master our issues. This is because sending love, light, and energy
to others, when we have not learned to love ourselves unconditionally,
attracts physically what we do not love within ourselves.
Isn't there an easier way to learn our lessons? I have developed a technique
specifically designed to clear our physical body by pulling in our energetic
field and loving ourselves.
What will the difference be when we are in our space, loving ourselves,
compassionate towards others, and not projecting our issues? The other
person will not be able to loop with us in the same way because we are
not projecting our issues or reflecting their issues back to them. We
will recognize our issues and take responsibility for them without projection.
We will then have a choice about how we wish to continue to grow spiritually.
We can learn, instead, by witnessing others and the dynamics around us.
Most of us naturally loop with our loved ones. We create patterns of
interaction where we reflect each other's issues, and we continue these
patterns of engagement to keep our loved ones attached to us. In the past,
some of us might have been afraid that if we didn't reflect the issues
of our loved ones, they would leave us to find someone who would. Please
understand, loving ourselves unconditionally is very attractive. Our loved
ones will feel this wonderful energy and want to be around us, even if
they don't know why. It is both healthier and easier to attract and keep
a lover by loving ourselves than by reflecting their fear and pain.
As we fully embrace the vibration of loving ourselves unconditionally,
what will happen to the people we used to loop with? They will feel the
love and acceptance we have for ourselves. This gives them the opportunity
to recognize this quality in themselves and change if they choose. We
can never change another person, but the more we love ourselves, the easier
it is for someone else to recognize that capacity within themselves. Even
though we may not like what others may be creating, we will understand
what they are doing and have compassion for them. By not repeating these
old energetic patterns, we can accept others for who they are without
What I advocate is to be love. To be love is to love ourselves unconditionally
and have unconditional compassion for others. This is the beginning of
the path to having unconditional love for all creation and discovering
the power of the heart and soul.
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